
A relative really irritated me recently with certain comments. I don't want to rise to it but I also don't want to be a doormat. Asked the Gothic Tarot of Vampires for advice & drew card number 9 - the Hermit. The book says "Seclusion, solitude, ....isolation from...pleasures". And it's funny-this is what I was thinking anyway. Basically the person concerned has been very generous with me lately & for that I'm grateful. But it feels as if this has allowed them to think they can "control" things in someway - which they can't. Too much time spent with them doing "fun" things has given a potentially misleading impression. So I think I need some space now-some time apart. So we can all assume our regular roles that respect the boundaries that exist between us & don't try to take liberties. If I don't I will lose my temper. The image in the card is interesting-the guy is sitting in the shadows & letting the burning light from the sun harmlessly burn up some offering bowls laid out before him. In other words if I stay out of direct contact for a while these negative energies & anger will hopefully and harmlessly burn themselves out without causing any damage to our friendship.
Michelle
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